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Whether you are with your partner or separated, playing an active role in your child’s development builds a strong foundation for your child’s future.
As your child grows, your involvement will improve your child’s ability to regulate their emotions, perform well in school, and stay out of trouble and away from drugs and alcohol.
The good news is, it’s not complicated. There are simple things you can do today to give them a bright future. Keep reading to learn more. You can also visit Vida Parent Support Services for supportive parenting services for dads.
Be Present
Holding your child, comforting them when upset, and spending time with them are crucial to their development. Even just sitting with them shows you care.
You can talk and read to your child at any age. Your conversations will help them develop language and communication skills.
Beginning from day one, you and your child can form a bond that will last a lifetime.
Have Focused Playtime
Moms and dads are complementary. While mothers offer one-of-a-kind emotional support and comfort, fathers play with their children in different ways that build their cognitive, emotional, and social skills.
Even devoting 15 minutes of consistent, focused playtime with your child each day will help them know that they are a priority to you and help them develop.
The type of play isn’t complicated. You might start by showing your infant high contrast cards and shaking a rattle, then move into more sophisticated play (like catching a ball) as they age.
Get to Know Your Child
Every child is unique and likes different types of play. Some kids love to play with toys, and others like more physical types of play. Get to know your child and what they like, and then adjust your play style to them.
Every child also has distinct interests. If your son loves cars, consider taking him to a car show when he’s old enough. If your daughter wants a tea party, surprise her with a tea party. Your interest in your child’s favorite activities will mean the world to them and form special memories.
Sprinkle in Education
Try to add educational elements to your playtime and conversations.
You aren’t just throwing a ball, you are throwing a “green, bumpy ball.” You can make their cow toy “moo” or dog toy “bark.” Teach them a skill like tying their shoes, or tell them some facts they haven’t learned yet. You can get creative with education.
You Can Do It
Committing to being involved in your child’s life from birth onward will improve their lives forever. A father’s love means everything and builds children’s self-esteem and confidence.
Vida Parent Support Services is here to support you with parenting education. Contact us to learn how we can help you thrive as a dad. You are making a difference.